Neither of my parents had any musical background. (I took the group piano class while having nothing to practice on during the week between lessons!). I begged my parents to buy a piano and they relented when I was seven.
My mother sold Tupperware to pay for a Wurlitzer console piano from the local music store. She found a graduate voice (not piano) student at the local university to teach me. That young teacher was smart and kind. I enjoyed her lessons a lot!
I found great relief in learning music throughout my youth. Music soothed my emotional confusion and allowed me to express my true feelings with anonymity. I relished solitude and musical expression as an introvert. I still do!
Contrary to my dark moods as a child (don’t worry, I’ve lightened up!), I distinctly remember having incredible fun in my elementary music classes. My first music teacher was Dorothy Smith (now deceased). She was the funniest, most animated, openly warm-hearted and embracing teacher I’ve ever had in my life.
Sometimes she would sing and play cute, comedic songs on piano for us that she had composed herself. She would help us put together musicals—including our parents as cast members! Her infectious enthusiasm and complete warmth were my catalytic hook to music.
The fact she shared her love of creating original songs and using music as a way of community-building and fun ingrained in my heart the value of music as a communication method. She was a role model of using creativity to harmonize with others.
I quickly outgrew my first piano teacher and spent a few years waiting for my parents to find another. When we found one, I went through everything that teacher could offer within a year.
This went on in the same pattern until I started college. So I had a spotty, inconsistent and generally lacking in educational quality piano history before college.
My College Years
After a difficult period in my personal life, I moved myself from Kentucky to Florida when I was 23. I was happily able to receive both piano and vocal scholarships at State College of Florida and University of South Florida.
However, I had a tendency to practice my original music and neglect my classical piano pieces until a week before jury time. Then I would cram all day piano practice sessions for a week to pass my juries.
Miraculously, I always did well except for my nerves. It was a stressful situation full of stage fright. I don’t recommend it.
The stage fright I experienced was traumatic and held me back for many years from being able to pursue music performance. My stage fright and approach to music learning were a reflection of my life choices to that point and my lack of disciplined training.
I hadn’t yet learned good piano practice habits. I had to learn quite late, and definitely the hard way about the importance of consistent, disciplined effort and preparation in music practice.
Although I got both piano and vocal scholarships and was leader of the jazz, madrigal and full college choirs, I didn’t opt for a vocal degree, and ended up changing my initial major from piano performance to music composition.
Although I was capable as a soprano and pianist, somehow creation itself always had a stronger voice within me.
What’s Most Important About Your Musical Experience
The memory association that first teacher gave me about music has been a huge factor in my ability to not give up on my musical growth despite struggles with stage fright and inconsistent training.
I share the detail of my spotty musical background as a way to encourage anyone reading that piano is for everyone. You don’t have to have the fortune of high profile credentials to learn piano and gain the tremendous benefits of music education.
I’m grateful for my first teacher’s influence in that regard because I feel she showed me what’s most important early on. That lesson carries me through to this day.
As a result, despite my obstacles, and with gratitude for my teachers, I made a 30-year career out of piano and music teaching, as well as performing professionally as pianist and vocalist.
Knowing How To Practice Piano Effectively Is Key
In college, one of my piano instructors, Dr. Charles Turon, gave me a complete understanding of how to practice piano effectively. He taught me the importance of ‘mind spent’ versus ‘time spent’.
He also taught me the importance of mindfulness and breath in regard to awareness of physical tension and placement in relation to piano practice.
That was a huge lesson for piano progress, and Dr. Turon’s lessons are the basis for both my teaching strategy and my personal piano practice sessions.
Immersed In The World Of Negative Musical Experiences
Unfortunately, not having a solid musical training led to a lack of confidence in myself as a musician. In college, I had such low self-esteem that I felt inadequate and out of place in the music department.
I had a few piano teachers there whose intellectual snobbery and emotional distance kind of perpetuated my negative feeling. I had two female piano teachers, but both were reserved and stoic. Fellow pianists were stand-off-ish and mostly concerned with flashy technique versus authentically musical expression. So my whole college experience was a world of musical snobbery and intense judgment.
I know many musicians who’ve experienced the intellectual egoism in the classical music world, too. I also think this negative experience influenced my decision to get my degree in music composition versus performance.
How You Can Have The Joy of Solid Piano Study
I wrote this ebook for the same reason I taught piano for decades. I want to help you get started in your musical journey with a positive foundation. My desire is to give you an incredibly warm, heartfelt environment where you feel confident in your musicality and self-expression.
Giving others what I didn’t have on my own musical journey until much later is extremely important to me. I offer this ebook and all my content on piano learning so that no one else experiences the snobbery, intellectual ego, or educational gaps I’d endured.
There are so many people who are looking to start piano lessons for themselves, a friend, or a child. However they don’t really know how to start or even what basics are truly essential for a successful piano education. Many people are intimidated by the prospect and give up even though they really want to play piano!
There’s a lot of noise out there offering quick tricks or gimmicks to learn piano faster than before. I’m not saying that some things available online or elsewhere aren’t offering any value. The truth is that these don’t work in the long run—or at least not as a foundation—for those who truly want to progress in playing piano successfully and continue to progress as a musician.
My ebook is meant to dispel the myth—that piano playing can be accomplished with a fast, easy trick or gimmick—through straight talk from someone who has taught and played piano for 30 years.
I’ve retired from one-on-one piano teaching, but I want to offer value to my online audience at YourCreativeChord.com. Over the years, many people asked me the questions featured in my new ebook! I’ve written several blogs answering a lot of those questions from new or returning piano learners.
I decided to offer an all-in-one, easy-to-read resource where those interested in starting piano lessons can find all the answers to their questions about how to successfully begin and forge a strong foundation for continued piano progress.
For anyone who’s interested in exploring piano learning, this is the ebook that gives you everything you need to get started learning piano right. ‘Right’ means with the confidence that you’ve got the right teacher, method, instrument, setup, routine, advice, age and anything else needed to successfully begin piano!
Start Piano: What You Need For Successful Learning Ebook
A practical, down-to-earth, all-in-one resource and easy-to-read guide for anyone interested in getting started or returning to piano lessons.
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